How Long Should You Wait For The Call?

You went through the steps, and gotten a girl's number. You call, and getting no answer, you leave a message.

Therein lies the issue.

You've essentially put the ball in her court, and if you call her back too soon, you're going to look desperate. Wait too long to call her back, and you run the risk of having her lose interest.

This begs the question - how long should you wait for a girl to call you back?

If you watch a movie like "Swingers," all about young guys in the club scene, the common knowledge there is to wait 3 days to call back.

The logic here is that 3 days seems like enough time so that you don't come off as some type of desperate freak. But when it comes to getting a return phone call, you should be thinking about ANYTHING but yourself!

Understand - it's up to the girl whether or not she will call you back. So if you understand where she's coming from, you'll have a better idea of when to try again.

For example, did you get a feeling that the girl was really interested in you when she gave you the number? Try to remember. Sometimes a woman will hand you a number just to get rid of you.

Knowing the girl was into you is a big factor, because you have more leeway with someone who likes you than you do with someone who's neutral or on the fence.

Also keep in mind that girls can get busy, and may not have time to call you. Then, when they get time, they may be too tired or don't feel like talking.

Talking to someone on the phone is a time commitment, and it also takes mental energy that can sometimes be hard to expend. Calling a girl on a weekday, when most people have jobs and responsibilities to attend to, can affect callback time.

Here are some tips when it comes to playing the phone game...

Have something ready to talk about, if you have to leave a message. Just saying "hi" and telling her to call you back won't cut it. Give a reason to call you back. Recall a prior conversation or point of interest. Tell her you just heard a funny joke you'd like to share with her. It doesn't matter, as long as she knows there's something to look forward to when she calls.

Give her a day to call you back. Don't wait three days, but don't call her back an hour later either. If she doesn't get back to you in a day's time, she might have just gotten busy or sidetracked. Call again the next day.

Use text message reminders before the next callback. Unlike leaving voice messages, texting a girl often doesn't come off as desperate. In fact, they can serve as good reminders, and more women will text you back rather than call you back. After your message, text her around three hours later. You can say something like:

"Hey - haven't heard back from you yet. You must be super-busy! Or are you leading some strange double life I don't know about? lol."

Texting little things like this just keep you on her radar.

Also - don't overdo the calling. I'll usually attempt to call a girl three times. If I don't hear back from her, and she's not responding to my text messages, I'll just move on. Best not to waste your time and energy trying to contact a girl who's too busy for you or not interested, because there are plenty of women out there who will be.

Personalized Pub Glasses or Beer Glasses as Wedding Favors

If you want to have fun at your wedding reception, then you want to give away personalized pub glasses or beer glasses as wedding favors. Personalized pub glasses and beer glasses make wedding receptions unique and unforgettable. And, that’s what you want. You want your wedding and its reception to be unique and unforgettable.

First of all, you will want to have your names, the date of your wedding, and a nice design such as a two hearts printed on the side of the pub glasses or beer glasses. This adds a nice personal touch and makes the glasses perfect keepsakes for your guests.

Personalized pub glasses or beer glasses makes it easy for everyone to say “cheers” to your happy day. Fill them up and make a toast to start your reception off right. Before you know it, everyone will be dancing on the dance floor and at their tables. Custom printed pub glasses or beer glasses are a great way to really get the party going.

After the reception is over, your guests can then take the personalized pub glasses or beer glasses home with them. There, they can use them at their own discretion. Every time they use them they will be reminded of your special day and the fabulous time they had. It's a great way to bless your wedding and marriage.

When you give away personalized pub glasses or beer glasses as wedding favors, you are saying “thank you” to all of your guests. You are thanking them for coming and sharing your wedding with you and you are thanking them for their blessings. It’s just a small gesture on your part, but it will mean the world to your guests. They will never forget the awesome time they had and they will always remember the beautiful wedding favors you gave out.

Not many people choose to use personalized pub glasses or beer glasses as wedding favors. That’s why they are so unique. Your guests will be surprised to see them, as they will be expecting something like candy coated almonds wrapped in cellophane paper and tied with a bow. When you set the pub glasses or beer glasses on the tables, you are sending a message that it’s really time to party, time to celebrate. And, your guests will get that message.

Personalized pub glasses or beer glasses as wedding favors are a fun and unique way of celebrating your marriage. They are inexpensive, yet high in quality. And, they are one of the best ways to say “thank you” for honoring my wedding.