Planning to Win Your Ex Back? 3 Ways to Start

Having a plan to getting your ex back is most essential if you want to actually succeed. There are rare occasions when not having a plan works but those, you will find, will often end up in a messy heap after some time. Women who make a plan are more successful at getting their ex back and keeping him. Here are three steps you can take to get your own plan started:

(1) Separation

Once the words “We’re over” have crossed your ex’s lips, you need to take him seriously and avoid having any contact if at all possible. Because life isn’t perfect and complications exist, you might have to sometimes deal with seeing your ex. Just deal with it appropriately. Your relationship status is always off limits if you do happen to bump into your ex for whatever reason; at least for about thirty days while you finish working out the rest of your plan.

(2) Recuperation

This is the healing stage that is most important because it allows you to build trust again. During the time that you’re separated from your ex you can work on getting better. You’ll be able to fight your feelings of being alone and of the aches and pains of the breakup so you won’t have any harsh feelings towards your ex for deciding to break things off. This is also a great time for you to figure out exactly how you want to work on getting your ex back.

(3) Reconciliation

After you’ve spent time healing and letting your ex have some space and you have a plan all set out to get your ex back comes the part of actually getting your ex back. You should have a plan set by this point: call him up for dinner, run into him at the store while you’re looking your best or having a get together of some close mutual friends. The point is to get your ex in a position that you can start talking and see if you can set up a date for later, even if it is just coffee.