It can be hard to see your ex holding hands with someone else when all you hope is that you can win your ex back. However, if youre worried that this means youre never going to get the chance to get him/her back, youre probably worrying over a menial little relationship in which your ex most likely doesnt care on a deep level for who he or she is with.
In all probability, your ex is just on a little rebound. Many people feel the need to jump right back into the dating arena in order to have that feeling of being needed fulfilled. If your ex is just out for a bit of social fun, this can be a good sign for you. It might mean he/she is ready to start putting trust in someone again. Just because he/she is in a rebound doesnt mean your chances are over. In fact, its likely your chances of getting back with your ex have increased.
Having a rebound relationship might even be good for you. Not to make your ex jealous but to get you back on your feet. Youll be able to test the waters, so to speak, and make sure that youre really ready to put feelings into someone else again. A breakup is hard and will impact your level of trust and how open you are to sharing emotions again.
Dont take the relationship your ex might have started recently as a sign that youre never going to get back with your ex. Wait it out and youll just likely get the chance to win your ex back.
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