After applying the final touches to putting yourself back together for your ex, you step outside only to find your ex is in a budding relationship with someone else. As discouraging as this appears, its not the end of the world. Its most likely that your ex is just in a rebound relationship as opposed to something more serious. Unless marriage is already in the picture for your ex and his new special someone, its more probable that your ex is giving you a good sign that hes ready to start dating again. What hes most likely doing is proving to him that he can stand again.
Reflecting upon yourself and your own situation is a good idea. Just think about if you had gone on a few dates after your separation. Your confidence level would have shot up and you would have been able get over your heartache. Rebound relationships are often very short. A rebound doesnt mean that your ex is over you. In fact, it might just mean hes attempting to stop feeling as strongly about you as he still does.
Though getting over an ex isnt always the reason for a rebound, thats often the case. Many relationships have been repaired because of the rebound stage of a breakup. Taking the opportunity to date other people after a breakup might just show you exactly how you feel about your ex and vice versa. People fight, and sometimes those fights end badly and if your ex is dating someone else theyre likely to think back on the genuine aspects of the relationship the two of you shared together.
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