Get My Girlfriend Back - Effective Ways To Get Your Girl Back

Love is not easy, especially when it comes to women.  The same goes for men, but for your purposes, will stick with women on this one.  When trying to win back her affections, it's important to remember that women appreciate small gestures of love.  It makes them feel close to a man.  What's more, it brings you one step closer to getting back into her good graces.

You may be wondering, "How can I get my ex girlfriend back?"

But before you jump into trying to get her back, let's first think about the way she acts around you.  Does she look at you with expectation in her eyes?  If you've answered yes to this question, chances are she would appreciate a surprise from you.

Roses are a symbol of love.  Let them represent your affections for her.  If you're trying to win her back, telling her how much she needs you in her life is not going to do you any favors.  Make her feel needed and appreciated.  Order a dozen roses, and have them delivered to her door unannounced.  However, don't opt for red roses.  They symbolize deep and undying love, and you don't want to jump that far, not yet, anyway.

Instead, opt for yellow or pink roses, which say you care about someone without going overboard about your emotions.  Attach a card with simply your name and a line that says, "Thinking of you."  This creates an air of mystery.  She may begin to wonder what you meant by that.  Do you want to be more than friends?  Have your feelings for her changed?

Suddenly, such questions will flood her mind.

However, don't immediately jump into pursuit mode, calling her at 30 minute intervals.  Sit back, and wait for her to call you.  If she never responds, then just assume she's not interested.  But if she calls, and her voice has a lift, you've probably hit the jackpot.

When she begins to call you, this is the first step to opening up the doors to communication.  Be happy to hear from her, and show it.  Ask about her life, but leave out details about yours.  If she's truly interested, her questions will flow naturally.

In romance, there are no easy answers, but there are resolutions to be found in her eyes and her actions.  Now take your love life by the reins, and make her a part of it-again!