2012年10月6日星期六

Why There Is No Such Thing As "The Right Time" To Meet Women

One of the biggest mistakes I see men make when it comes to meeting a girl is "waiting for the right time."

They see a girl they like, they know they want to approach her, but for some reason, the circumstances just aren't ideal.

He then does one thing that hurts him far worse than any circumstance.

HE WAITS.

And he keeps waiting until the right time comes, or he misses his opportunity all together. And guess what? More often than not - the right time NEVER comes!

Past experience has taught me that this concept of a "right time" is one of the biggest fantasies you can harbor.

It is one of the biggest roadblocks to finding the girl of your dreams, to boot.

BIG TIME.

What you're really doing is just giving yourself an excuse not to approach the girl you want to meet. You allow yourself the opportunity to give into your nerves and fears, and ultimately end up blowing your shot.

So the moral of this story is - there is NEVER a right time to meet a girl.

Understand, you have to seize opportunities as they present themselves, even if the situation isn't ideal.

The only thing that ever gets results is taking action. Walking up to a girl and talking to her is guaranteed to get you a result. Standing around waiting for the perfect time will not.

Try not to give into your fears and insecurities. Instead, try not to think at all! As soon as you see a girl you like, walk up to her and start talking.

Your fears might mount up. That doesn't matter - just walk up to her, say hello, and introduce yourself. The key is to not let a great opportunity slip away from you.

Even if things don't turn out the way you hoped, that is preferable to letting the opportunity pass you by and never knowing what could have been.

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