The Road to Getting Back Together

Breakups are hard for both the dumper and dumpee. The hurt can get so dreadful that it can lead to a deep depression.

If you’ve tried to get your ex back while being depressed or pitiful, you know its an impossible feat. The reality is that to get your ex back you have to do some counter-intuitive actions

Don't Be a Stalker

Make your ex wonder what you’re up to by not being always available. What does it take to make your ex miss you? You should us the no-contact rule Do not call, text or email during the no contact phase. Let your ex know they can contact you if they to. It’s a waiting game after that.

Don’t call or drunk text your ex. Avoid places your ex would typically hangout. If your friends are the same as your ex’s, contact them first to see if your ex is with them. Don’t rely on your ex’s family or friends to help you get or convince your ex of any wrongful breakup. It’s just pitiful. Just leave it alone.

Do not grovel under your ex. You will be ruining your chances with your ex. You are killing your chances with getting your ex back Also, try to stop yourself from making desperate promises of change in return for a second chance. That won’t work either.

Even though it may seem impossible, try to stay cool and collected. Being calm and collected will help make you look put together despite the breakup. In reality you may be sinking inside, don't allow that to show. Looking pathetic will label you as undesirable.

The New You

A lot of people bring to mind that you shouldexpand your appearance to help get your ex back. I advise that your improve your looks. There are various reasons to improve your looks. One good reason is that your will seem to have it all together if your ex ever finds out. Another great point is that your self-confidence will be improved.

Give importance to yourself

You should pamper yourself because you deserve to be happy, strong and full of life. Get some exercise Drink a lot of water. It’s good for your body and your skin. Yes, that's you!