How To Turn Rejection Into A Success

If there's one thing every single guy on the face of the planet has experienced at one time or another, it's rejection.

Who hasn't fallen for a girl, only to find out that she doesn't feel the same way about you?

Indeed, rejection can be extremely painful to experience. It's almost as if every time a girl gives you the brush off, she's saying there's something wrong with you!

And let's face it - nobody likes to feel like they aren't good enough.

And most guys handle the prospect of it in ways that make things far worse with the situation.

Normally they'll run from it, or get angry over it.

When facing rejection, a common strategy, which is probably the WORST thing you can do, is this: go along with whatever she feels and deceive her into thinking you aren't interested.

This usually leads to the "just being her friend" gambit, where the lovelorn man pretends to be the girl's friend, just so he can somehow try and desperately salvage the situation.

But as we all know, this trick rarely, if ever, works.

So what are your options? Well, you could just walk away and look for a girl who is more open to you. Or, you can try and turn that rejection into attraction.

In case you aren't prepared to walk away, then you're going to need to roll up your sleeves, because the hard work is about to begin.

Despite it being such a nasty situation for many people, the good news is that it can be reversed through some hard work.

Before you get started, understand one very important notion: attraction is NOT a choice!

Attraction is a series of subconscious responses. Even if you were to ask a girl what it is she finds attractive, chances are she won't be able to tell you the exact things that trigger those intense feelings in her.

For instance, a girl might say she likes tall guys. However, it isn't the fact that the guy is tall that attracts her, its the way she FEELS when around tall guys that attracts her!

Maybe she subconsciously associates feelings of security with tall men. Who knows why she feels the way she does?

What IS important is that she FEELS that way.

That's great news. If can trigger those feelings, you'll have a chance at getting her to feel some attraction towards you.

The first thing you need to understand is why she rejected you in the first place. If she told you she wasn't interested, it means you did something wrong.

And I'm willing to bet, the wrong thing you did was - you did NOT find out what feelings she needs to experience to become attracted to you!

Do not fall in the trap that attraction only has to do with looks. For women, attraction is a very emotional thing. Do looks play a part? Sure. But emotions play a bigger part, so even if you're not her physical type, if you can play on her emotions, you can get her.

And don't forget the most important thing when turning rejection into attraction - FUN!

Guys who are fun to be around are naturally attractive. When you're with a girl, you might be too nervous or serious to have her experience fun with you. So lighten up! Try and relax and have a good time with the girl you like.

When you can have a good time with a girl, she will begin to shift her feelings towards you.

And these opportunities allow you to direct those feelings into attraction, which should be your focus in the first place.