Done Him Wrong? Here Are Four Very Easy Steps On How To Get Your Ex Back

Going through a break up is probably one of the toughest things a person will encounter in his or her life. This is five times harder if you have been dumped by your boyfriend after doing something bad he can't seem to accept. The pain is too much to deal with, I can assure you. But the urge to get your ex back is much difficult to bear.

You know that you have done your ex harm so you are burdened by two things: the guilt and desire to take him back,

Your dilemma is how you can ask him to give you another chance when you have just wronged him. Don't worry because all is not lost. There are still some things you can do. You just need to follow the things I'll say to you.

1. Say sorry. Yes. Saying sorry is the first thing you need to do. For some people, admitting fault and asking for forgiveness can be a very difficult thing. But if faced with the choice of either say sorry or lose your ex boyfriend forever, what road will you choose?

2. Sit down and talk things through. For sure, you are both mature individuals who can still sit down as adults and talk. When you get together to talk, do not ask him back right away. You might only push him away more. What you need to do is obvious: ask for his forgiveness. Tell him that you have realized the harm you have done, ask for his forgiveness and promise that you will never do it again. Then that's when you go and tell him about how much you love him and that you are hoping that he still loves you. You can be sure that he still loves you. He's just hurt so you have an opportunity to appeal to that.

3. Give him space. Naturally, your boyfriend will be hurt; he can even be mad so you need to give him space and time. After you have talked to him and asked for forgiveness and expressed how you still feel for him, he needs to think about it and assess the relationship. You need to give him time. With all the emotion he is going through, he needs time to think. He can't get back with you if he is still hurting with what happened. Also, by giving him space and time, he will be able to think about how he still feels about you.

4. Do not be desperate. One thing that will not help you is resorting to desperation. You must make sure that you do not beg for your ex to take you back because this is a major turn-off. It's one thing to be very repentant and sorry about your fault, but it's another thing to beg. You must never do this.

I recommend you follow everything I mentioned to get your ex back.