Starting Conversations With Women

Most guys are afraid to approach women and start conversations.

Saying the word "ice breaker" reaffirms this. You are under the assumption that the woman in question is going to respond in an icy manner.

In fact, most men just assume that girls don't want to talk to them! They feel like they are "bothering" a girl by approaching her, and chances are, they'll get rejected.

The truth is that most women are actually open and receptive to being approached by a good man, and are happy to engage in conversation!

This may go against what most men think, but it's the honest truth. As long as a guy isn't desperate, needy, or creepy, he can successfully approach and start a conversation with almost any woman.

Just remember that most women will respond somewhere in the range of "neutral" to "positive" if you say almost ANYTHING to them. In fact, you have to work really hard to get a bad reaction from a woman!

Ways to get a bad reaction from a woman:

1.) Trying to start a conversation by acting nervous or scared. This will creep women out and make them want to distance themselves from you. Try and be confident when talking to women.

2.) Use a terrible pick up line. They may seem funny, but in the scheme of dating, they are just bad. Avoid them.

3.) Being too aggressive. Women certainly don't like being objectified. If you cross the line with your flirting, you'll insult her.

As long as you can keep from doing these three things, you'll be safely in the "neutral" to "positive" range with a woman.

This means - whatever you say to start the conversation will more than likely work! Just be sure you ask an engaging question, and not just a "yes or no" question. Also, stay away from the boring topics all guys use, like "What's your name?" and "What do you do?"

Instead, try asking her opinion on something. What you're wearing for instance. Girls love to give advice. Ask her about something timely that's going on in pop culture - what celebrity is dating who? Ask her about the arts - I have yet to meet a girl who doesn't like music!

Just make sure that whatever you ask the girl will lead into a deeper conversation, because that will help you break through any hesitancy to talk.

That should get you started.

The point is that there's a way to put yourself in a situation that naturally and easily sparks conversations. You just need to be ready when it happens.

And sometimes, a girl will just not want to talk. Don't worry, it's about numbers. You'll find most are open to talking to you about nearly anything.

This kind of thing should help you get past the fear and hesitation to start conversations with beautiful women.