Finding Togetherness with Your Ex

When a relationship ends, there’s always some sort of pain involved. The hurt can get so bad that it can lead to a unfathomable depression.

However, if you've had some experience about trying to get and ex back, you will know that a depression will not help bring you closer to getting back together. The truth behind getting your ex back includes doing things that may seem counter-intuitive from what you might think is the right or correct thing to do.

The No Contact Rule

Getting your ex back means to make your ex wonder and miss you. What does it take to make your ex miss you? You should us the no-contact rule Do not call, text or email during the no contact phase. Let your ex know they can call you up if ever. After you tell them that, just wait and see.

No-contact rule truly means no drunk calling or drunk texting your ex. You should also try to avoid places where they might be hanging out. If you share the same friends, you should ask first to avoid any type of contact. On top of that, don't ask or nag their friends or family about them. Just leave it alone.

Don't try to plead or beg for your ex to take you back. You will be ruining your chances with your ex. You are killing your chances with getting your ex back For goodness sake, promising you will change won’t get you a second chance. That won’t work either.

Always stay cool and level headed Being calm and collected will help make you look put together despite the breakup. Deep down you may be tearing up inside, but don’t let it show Looking dismal will tag you as undesirable.

The New You

A lot of people bring to mind that you shouldimprove your appearance to help get your ex back. I’m adamant on improving your physical appearance when trying to get back your ex. There are many excellent reasons to do so. One big benefit is that if your ex finds out, they will know that you are doing well and are still enjoying life. Second, your self-confidence and energy level will be boosted.

Love yourself.

You should spoil yourself because you deserve to be joyful, strong and full of life. Start getting some exercise. Eat and drink right. Start taking care of your body. Yes, that's you!