Dealing With Male Competition

A very difficult issue that some men face while attempting to gain a woman's interest is interference from other men.

And it's going to happen if she's attractive. Other guys WILL be interested.

And the reality is - some guys just can't HANDLE the idea of competition!

As soon as they see another guy talking to the girl they like, if he's in any way better looking than they are, they'll just GIVE UP.

Seriously. They will step aside and give the other guy all the time he needs to move in on their girl.

Sometimes, the guy will directly challenge the other guy in a fit of jealousy.

That's far worse because it shows the girl exactly how insecure you are.

So what's a guy to do?

Well, the first thing is to realize that there is NO SUCH THING as competition from other men.

This might sound strange to you, but hear me out...

You guys aren't in a race for a gold metal here. When it comes to affections of the heart, there are no true winners. It is possible for a girl to be attracted to more than one man at the same time.

So in that sense, even if a new guy shows up, you're not completely out in the cold.

Regardless, you will need to keep some of that focus on you, otherwise you won't be able to create any attraction.

The key to dealing with other men moving in on your girl is LEADERSHIP. The ability to take control of the situation in a way that is not overbearing, needy, or insecure.

Doing things as simple as...

*Befriending the guy

*Taking control of the conversation

*Being more interesting than the guy

*Getting her to laugh

The key to all of this is that you want to take CONTROL of the interaction. From there you can direct it.

A woman will respond to you if you are the one who is in control.

So even if your "competition" is better looking, younger, richer, (or whatever) than you - it doesn't matter! Because in the end, YOU'RE the one the girl will follow.

Keep in mind that the ability to build your social status, to help others have a good time, to be more fun, funny, and interesting than the next guy - these are all aspects of control.

These facets of your personality will give you the power to lead the social dynamic of any group you choose.

And when YOU are the leader, guess what?

COMPETITION DOES NOT EXIST.

The guys around you should be considered followers. And that's that. And women will ALWAYS follow the guy who is in charge.