The Best Way To End The Relationship With A Woman

Breaking up with a girl can be rough. Next to finding a woman to date, it's one of the most difficult situations you can find yourself in.

There are a multitude of reasons why a man might want to end a relationship with her. He might not be attracted to her any longer, or feels like there is no emotional connection. She could just be annoying too.

Whatever the reason, the fact remains that you're not happy with the person you are seeing, and you want to END IT.

The old saying goes - breaking up is hard to do. And boy, they weren't kidding. It's always hard to tell someone you don't care for them the same way they do for you. But it's always best to do it in a way that causes the least amount of pain possible.

The first thing to remember is that the sooner you do this, the better. If you know early on you don't want to go deeper into a relationship, cut things off quickly instead of leading the girl on. This will make the separation easier.

Sometimes, you may be tempted to keep the girl around until something better comes along. But don't do this. Prolonging something you know isn't going to work out won't do either of you any good.

Don't start avoiding the person, or worse yet, ignoring them. Doing this will cause them to think they did something wrong to upset you, and eventually that will turn into resentment for you.

Remember that you always want to end things with a woman so that should you want to come back to her at some point down the road, you'll be able to (even if, in all likelihood, you won't).

Destroying any ability you have to influence a woman can and will happen rather easily, if you dump her the wrong way. Be gentle about it instead.

Make sure you're there in person. If that's too hard for you, at least talk to her on the phone. Don't leave a message or text her your decision. Have the courtesy to tell her in person.

When you break the news, let her know that it has been hard for you to come to this decision, because she is a great girl. But for whatever reason, you don't feel the chemistry you need to be in a relationship with her.

Let her know you still value her and want to be her friend (even if you don't), and then ask her what she thinks.

Usually, she will want to know why it is you don't feel that special chemistry you need to be in a relationship. When she asks this, let her know this just wasn't the right time for you, and that you don't really know what you're looking for.

Being vague will help spare the girl's feelings.

And here's the kicker - apologize to her for not feeling the chemistry! Let her know you're sorry and you wish it was different. This will actually help the girl to regain some feeling of power in the interaction, which will lessen the hurt of rejection.

Make it clear you want to end things on good terms with her, and ask her what it would take to still be friends. By putting the ball in her court, you'll be allowing her to tell you how to proceed.