How To Make Sure You Aren't Ignored By Women

It goes without saying that meeting women can be difficult.

This is doubly so if you are shy or have little experience with women.

And it isn't even that women reject you - it's that they IGNORE you completely! Every time you go out to a bar or club, you end up standing around alone (or with your equally shy buddies) watching people have a good time.

And trust me - I know this can be SUPER frustrating.

So the key to really improve your success with women is to learn how to get yourself NOTICED.

And I mean noticed in a good way - not the kind of way where you're out making a fool of yourself running around in a jock strap and singing the lyrics to "Don't You Wish Your Girlfriend Was Hot Like Me?"

No. Bad.

The key is to do some things that YOU are comfortable with that are guaranteed to get you noticed by all the hotties you seem to find yourself surrounded by.

Here are five simple things you can do to make sure women will perk up and take notice of you...

1. Dress To Impress

Because most guys base their fashion sense on what doesn't itch, they tend to overlook one very important attention-getting factor, and that is what they wear can help them get noticed by women.

Understand - women pay a LOT of attention to fashion. Why? Because they try and look good all the time! It's expected of them. They are raised learning how to dress, accessorize, and put on makeup.

If you are doing something often, you'll be apt to notice others doing it. So when you take care of details in your look, like they do, they WILL notice that. They spend a lot of time picking out accessories and clothing themselves.

Dressing nice will always make you stand out in a crowd. I'm not talking about a suite and tie here, either. I'm talking about wearing a shirt with a cool design on it. I'm talking about hip, pre-faded jeans. Nice shoes, a good looking watch, and maybe even a few rings on your fingers.

Most guys don't bother, which is WHY you should. Women will notice the difference.

At the very least, invest in a cool pair of shoes you wear all the time. Even something as simple as this will help you get attention.

2. Smell Your Best All The Time

Men have fallen out of habit of wearing a good aftershave or cologne. But never underestimate the importance of scent. Just like when you smell a woman's perfume and get all weak in the knees, they'll catch a whiff of your cologne and melt inside.

Our sense of smell is one of our most powerful - but overlooked senses. I have actually had women track me down in a club because they were trying to find the source of that good smell they sensed nearby.

And when you're on a date - fuhgetaboutit! As soon as you get close, you're guaranteed to hear the girl exclaim "Oh my God, you smell so good!" Seriously, you can almost see the pheromones get released in her brain. It's wicked!

Remember - play against the laziness of other men. Wearing a nice cologne will set you apart, and actually pull women towards you with no other effort on your part!

3. Smile And Make Lots Of Eye Contact

When I'm out at a bar or a club, I always cringe when I see the guys who stand in the corner, holding their drinks, looking around like a lost little puppy with a big frown on their face.

Too often, guys will gaze at a girl they think is hot, and the minute she looks their way, they turn away to try and act like they weren't staring at her.

But when you lock eye contact with a girl - guess what? She NOTICES you. Suddenly, a face in the crowd stands out and registers in her brain.

And if you have a big frown or a blank stare on your face - guess what? That eye contact isn't going to last very long! When your eyes meet, you gotta remember to SMILE!

Smiling is a good thing. You will radiate happiness, relaxation, and comfort, and those around you will feel better for it.

But more than this - when you lock eye contact and smile, and the girl smiles BACK - it is on! You two just shared an exchange of non-verbal communication. Now, it will be SO MUCH easier to walk up and start talking to her.

4. Talk To Her

Every shy guy or wallflower I know always wonders why girls don't notice him, and what he's doing wrong. It's like he has some fantasy that the woman will approach HIM and ask HIM out on a date.

But 99% of women don't operate this way.

To women, if a guy doesn't approach them, he's not interested! Even if they LIKE a guy and find him attractive, they'll never approach him. It's always up to the guy.

So if you take some time and TALK to her, she's guaranteed to notice you. But stay away from "boring" conversation topics like "Where are you from?" and "What do you do?"

Remember - the key here is to STAND OUT. When you approach a girl, ask her something interesting. Instead of saying something like "You're hot, can I buy you a drink?" say "Hey, real quick - I just gotta know - which do you think is manlier, a guy drinking an apple martini, or a guy drinking a strawberry daiquiri?"

Do you understand the difference in those questions? It's rare that a girl will be asked the latter. And it will spark far more conversations.

The key is to make yourself interesting. You do this by being different, and offering something new. You also are talking to her, rather than forcing her to talk to you. If you don't get things moving, it's doubtful she'll do it either.

5. Be Fun!

It's a painfully obvious fact that guys who have a good time get noticed by women.

Why? Because women want to have a good time too!

When you're standing around, feeling bored, or lonely, or desperate, or whatever - you are not having fun. Other people IGNORE those who don't have fun and sit there quietly.

But someone who's laughing, dancing, chatting with others - those are the people who get noticed. In fact, those are the people who draw others towards them!

One of the fundamental keys in attracting women is to have fun with them! Fun generates all sorts of positive emotions in women, and eventually, those emotions get associated with you!

All too often, guys take themselves way too seriously when they are around a girl they like, because they don't want to "blow it" with her. But when you play it safe, no one has any fun, and you get IGNORED. Because eventually, she's going to go off and have some fun with another guy if you're not meeting her needs!

And here's the beauty of this - if you're having fun and she isn't - so what? YOU are having a good time, and because of that, you will attract another girl to you who is on the same wavelength!

Being fun will make you far more interesting and comfortable around than the average guy, and you'll appear funnier to boot.

She can love you or hate you. Either is fine. Just remember, you don't want her apathetic towards you.