I was intrigued, just very very curious about online dating sites. As a divorced parent, I had no real idea how I would ever develop a meaningful relationship again.The whole lounge thing is not for me and having kids I have no time to be jumping from bar to bar. Working full time I have very little opportunity to meet anyone new so it just made sense that maybe one of these websites could be the ticket for me to find a new relationship.
Thus began my investigation into these sites and what they were all about.
What I have discovered is that online dating websites are vastly different from one to the next. some sites have a very casual "feel" to them.they appear to be designed for a person that is searching for a companion to spend some time with and who just likes to go out and have a good time.
Other online dating websites seem to be geared more toward people who are looking for a more committed relationship.Perhaps marriage and children sometime in the future.This got me wondering about what is was that I was searching for...
Having just come out of a marriage, I decided that I needed a break from all of the seriousness and that it was more of a casual relationship that I was looking for. Someone to go out with, talk to, spend time with.Im more came from it fine; but I knew that for now I needed to keep it simple and find online dating sites that would be easy and fun.
In a lot of cases I found that people seemed to be looking for friendship more than a romantic relationship.They looked lonely and as any adult knows, it can be difficult to develop friendships as a grown up. When we are young we have time to play and to develop connections and ties that bind.As adults it can be significantly more difficult to do.
I really loved the fact that there were so many different online dating websites that catered to all kinds of clients with all different type of needs and wants.
In time my own personal needs may change if and when I feel ready to commit to another person. Then I will look at websites with more specific profiles and who offer clients with needs that are similar to mine.For now I am all about friendship and just plain fun...with major emphasis on the FUN!
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