Flirting with Women Tips For Men

I would like to ask you a question.

Have you ever been stuck in the friend mode with a woman you meet and like, despite all your best romantic efforts?

Well, there is a reason that happened!

Chances are it is because you did not flirt correctly with the woman.

Understand: Flirting is a very important part of the attraction process, and if you do it wrong (or worse yet, not at all!), the odds of blowing your chance with the girl go up significantly.

So why is flirting so important?

The answer is simple really; the process of flirting creates sexual tension.

And if you don't have sexual tension in an interaction, there is no attraction. And if there's no attraction, what does that make you?

You guessed it - A FRIEND!

Your attraction enhances when you know how to flirt with women properly.

And the secret is - flirting isn't really as hard as many people think. In fact, it can be a lot of fun. The only time flirting doesn't work is when it's done WRONG.

See, there's an art to flirting with a woman. Flirting is all about communicating your sexual interest in the girl, without coming right out and SAYING it.

These are mixed signals.

Your actions are communicating one thing, but your words are saying something completely different.

Some of the most common mistakes men make while flirting with a woman include:

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Obvious

Many men are caught up in the excitement of being attracted to a woman, and then they say exactly what they feel. They do not realize that this type of information presentation forces the woman to decide how she may feel about him.

And if you haven't laid the proper groundwork beforehand, chances are the girl is going to reject you.

MISTAKE #2: Not Being Obvious Enough!

On the flip side of that coin are the guys who communicate NO INTEREST AT ALL, yet in their minds they think that the girl should know how they are feeling. Then, when they make their move, the girl is surprised because up to this point, she had no idea the guy was interested in her!

MISTAKE #3: They Rely On Words Instead Of Actions

Flirting has a good deal to do with the words you use; however, non-verbal body language is a more powerful method. These are those little things such as, tilting your head, raising an eyebrow or casting a wicked little smile, since they give new meaning to otherwise innocent remarks.

MISTAKE #4: Taking Things Too Seriously

Flirting is a lighthearted and fun practice, it is when serious romantic gestures begin that causes the sexual tension to break down.

If you're not having fun when flirting - and more importantly, if the girl isn't having fun - then you are doing something WRONG.

I could list more mistakes like these, but I think you get the idea. So what's the right way to start flirting?

You're going to want to use as much sexual innuendo as you can. This is a great way to flirt. But the key here is to be SUBTLE.

Let us say you are at a bar, for example and the woman you are with orders a drink and then asks if you would like one as well, you can jokingly say to her, You aren't trying to get me drunk and take advantage of me, are you, while adding a nod and a wink.

Flirting communicates your attraction, although you never come right out and say it. Flirting is a lighthearted fun form of insinuation.

Another example would be, if a girl says something raunchy or naughty to you, you might respond with something like "Stop trying to seduce me, you vixen! You know I don't put out on the first date."

Consider how this works.

As you begin flirting more and more, you begin to get a bit more obvious about your interests, although you never really step over that line.

As you do this, you'll begin to notice how the attraction between you and the girl starts to build and build. And before you know it, that harmless flirting becomes an outright SEDUCTION.

And that is when the real fun begins.