How To Date Girls Successfully

When most guys think of dating, it's normally "dinner and a movie". Right?

It's a simple process - you go out and do things with her, to get to know her. Right?

Well, what if I told you that you had the completely WRONG idea about dating?

See, most guys use the concept of "going out" with a girl to mean that there is some romantic ulterior motive there, and that is not always the case.

Let's go over some of the most common mistakes guys make when "dating" a girl...

Mistake #1: Guys use dates as opportunities to "Impress" women.

Lots of guys think they have something to prove on dates. They "have to get her to like me!" So they'll try and take her to fancy places to show her a memorable time, and they'll try and brag about themselves to come off as important.

Mistake #2: Guys think it's all about spending to impress.

Unfortunately, most men think this way. You spend enough money on a woman, and you get to sleep with her. This is never good.

Aside from the gold diggers in the world, most women don't care how much you're spending on a date.

Mistake #3: Activities Mean Nothing!

Just the sheer act of going out to places with somebody doesn't mean as much as you think it does. If you do the typical "dinner and a movie" thing, that won't necessarily get the girl to like you. Spending time together does not always equate to romanic interest.

Mistake #4: Guys can become BORING!

Nothing is worse than going out on a date where there is no spark or chemistry. Some guys get so nervous on dates, that they sabotage themselves by being a boring dud. They talk about mundane things, display little or no personality, and just go through the motions hoping not to screw anything up.

Mistake #5: Guys follow a pattern of failure.

Finally, many men get a certain idea about dating in their heads - how things are supposed to be - and they follow that rigidly.

They take every girl they go out with to the same places, ask the same questions, and where does that lead to? A stale date. No spontaneity, no fun. Just boring.

What is dating all about then?

Simple: Dating is the process of building comfort, strengthening emotional connections, and building attraction!

See, it doesn't matter where you go, or how much money you spend. All that matters is how you're able to connect to the woman you're with and what you can make her feel about you.

That is why so many guys can take a girl on a cheap date and sweep her off her feet, and other guys can drop thousands of dollars on really creative dates and get NOWHERE.

You need to focus on how you can become emotionally connected with her, instead of trying to wow her financially.

Speak about what you find passionate. Figure out the interests you share, and where your hopes and dreams lie. Focus on these things.

Refrain from the mundane type of questioning like "what music do you like?" Instead, ask something that will really peak her interest like "If you could do anything you wanted, and weren't bound by the laws of space and time, what would you do?" That should spur conversation and be thought provoking!

Most importantly: HAVE FUN!

Crack jokes - even if they're not good. Have fun. Steer the conversation toward subjects she finds interesting. Be curious about who she is.

But most importantly, don't shy away from the idea of love making!

Most guys are afraid to bring the subject up. But hey, you have to build up some tension for there to be attraction, so I'd recommend it.

Make jokes about it, and flirt. Show a bit of a bad boy side to you. She'll appreciate it, and if you don't, you probably won't make it to the next level.