2012年9月13日星期四

Top 5 Dating Mistakes For Men

Have you considered that dinner and then a movie is only one aspect of dating a woman?

You go out and doing things with the woman while you get to know her.

Have you considered this may be the wrong idea when it comes to dating?

Although many men may consider dating a woman means they have some type of hidden romantic purpose, this is not always true.

Here you will find some of the more commonplace mistakes men make while dating a woman.

Mistake #1: Dates are simply to impress a woman.

Often men might feel like they have something to prove while on a date, to get the woman to like them. They seem to think that taking a woman to some fancy and memorable place and bragging about their accomplishments makes them seem important.

Mistake #2: Buying your way into the heart of a woman.

Sadly, many men think that if they spend enough money on a woman, they can get her to sleep with them. This is always (and has always been) a bad idea. Aside from the gold diggers in the world, most women don't care how much you're spending on a date.

Mistake #3: Activities Mean Nothing!

Just the sheer act of going out to places with somebody doesn't mean as much as you think it does. If you do the typical "dinner and a movie" thing, that won't necessarily get the girl to like you. Spending time together does not always equate to romantic interest.

Mistake #4: Men become boring!

If there are no sparks of chemistry, the date is a dud, this can happen, when men get nervous on their dates. Most often, these men continually talk about ordinary subjects while they show little to none of their sparkling personality. They just go through the motions with hopes of not messing up their date.

Mistake #5: Guys follow a pattern of failure.

Some men think dates should go a certain way, they have their own ideas of how things are suppose to turn out, they then follow the same strict pattern of failure. They always go to the same places, while asking their dates the same questions they have asked all the other women they have dated. There is no fun or natural impulses offered into their interactions.

What does dating a woman mean?

It is simply really, dating builds attractions by strengthening emotional connections and building comfort.

See, it doesn't matter where you go, or how much money you spend. All that matters is how you're able to connect to the woman you're with and what you can make her feel about you.

This is the key to why many men can go on a cheap date with a woman, while sweeping her off her feet, while other men may overspend on creative dating and get absolutely nowhere with the woman.

You should always focus on how you can encourage an emotional connection with the woman you date.

You should be open to talking about your shared passions and interests, while trying to figure out what her hopes and dreams may be.

Stay away from boring questions like "where do you work?" Instead, rephrase these questions to be fun and interesting, for instance, ask her: "If you could do anything you wanted, and weren't bound by the laws of space and time, what would you do?"

Above all, you should just have fun and enjoy yourself!

Crack jokes - even if they're not good. Have fun. Steer the conversation toward subjects she finds interesting. Be curious about who she is.

But most importantly, don't shy away from sex!

Too many guys are afraid to even broach the topic of sex while on a date. But you have to build the sexual tension to intensify the attraction.

Joke about sex. Flirt with her. Be a little wicked. Girls like this, and if you DON'T do it, you won't be able to build enough attraction to take things to the next level.

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