The Art of Blissful Relationships

Blissful relationships

Here are some great tips so you can start enjoying blissful relationships. They can be used if you've been married for 50 years or if you are just in the first stages of a fresh relationship.

Firstly, it is vitally important before you can have a good relationship to love yourself. Yes, you heard right -love your self! Unless you love yourself, it's difficult for you to believe that anyone else will or for anyone to love you. You must treat yourself well and others will treat you the same.

Self-esteem is vital for any strong and happy relationship. When you truly like yourself, in spite of any weaknesses you might have, you'll feel super confident. And when you have confidence you are secure within yourself and you can just enjoy being with your partner for the happiness they bring to your life, not because you feel you need them. It can be tempting to lean on your partner and rely on them too much for reassurance, but the stronger you are as a person, the stronger and happier your relationship will be.

Secondly, you must actually like your partner. A good relationship is between two individuals that like each other. If you honestly like each other and take pleasure in being together then love will never be too far away. It's important to tell your other half you like and love them. Kind, thoughtful words of encouragement and support will build up their trust and respect for you. Take some time out and think about the things you like about them and then give them some genuine compliments each day and you'll be helping to boost their self-esteem.

Thirdly, make sure you spend as much quality time together as possible. The importance of your relationship can be measured by the amount of time you want to give them. If you don't spend quality time together frequently the likelihood is your relationship will fall apart, sooner rather than later.

Then, talk to each other - good communication is absolutely crucial for a good relationship. It's the only way you can tell your partner what you want, who you are and why you do what you do. Improved communication is about learning to say honestly and openly exactly what you think and feel. Always, always - talk and listen.

Lastly, you must accept change, people do change over the years and it is these changes that can keep a relationship healthy. Life is always changing. Change provides great opportunities for growth. It may mean adjusting to a new way of thinking or a new way of life or it may also mean letting go of things that have been familiar and safe. Change is part of life. The key to a good relationships is learn to change together.

Keeping up all of the above isn't easy; relationships will always need working at. I want you to remember you deserve a happy, healthy relationship. If you don't feel you are in a happy relationship - get working on the above with your partner and look forward to some happy days ahead together.